Love & Happiness

I’m Still Learning to Love Myself: Confessions of a Self-Love Advocate

“Brethren, I count not myself to have apprehended: but this one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before, I press toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus.” Philippians 3:13-14 KJV Have you ever had to rebuke… Read More I’m Still Learning to Love Myself: Confessions of a Self-Love Advocate

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I Watched “Survival of the Thickest” on Netflix and Now I Feel More Awesome

There were two reasons why I wanted to check out “Survival of the Thickest“ on Netflix: 1. The main character, Michelle Buteau, is a plus-size woman of color who has done and is doing things I aspire to do. 2. My gorgeous—and equally talented—bestie, Ambre Anderson guest starred as “Dr. Britta” in episodes 7 and… Read More I Watched “Survival of the Thickest” on Netflix and Now I Feel More Awesome

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What Would B.B. Wear?: Let’s Get Intimate, Again; Curated Plus-Size Lingerie

When you visited the Diary of a Stylish Buxom Beauty website, you were greeted by a Facebook Messenger pop-up, which was added to allow more engagement and serve as a vehicle to ask questions and share ideas. Last month, a few inquiries were submitted—one of which is being highlighted in this post. Based on the… Read More What Would B.B. Wear?: Let’s Get Intimate, Again; Curated Plus-Size Lingerie

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News Flash: I Am An Overweight Black Woman

Although I have been overweight for the majority of my life, I haven’t experienced a lot of mistreatment or slurs to my face about it. I’ve also never felt like I couldn’t or shouldn’t take up space as a fat person. However, a recent event made me think about it. An incident occurred at work… Read More News Flash: I Am An Overweight Black Woman

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Just a Thought with B.B.: “Words Have Power”

The impact words have on our well-being has been on my mind. Mainly because I recognized I created an atmosphere of anxiety and doubt by the words I spoke and thought. I’ve been making a conscious effort to “speak life” into everything because words have tremendous power. In the latest YT video, I share more… Read More Just a Thought with B.B.: “Words Have Power”

DOSBB Podcast Season Two

DOSBB Podcast: “Embracing ‘Enoughness’ with Shontae Smith”

Season two of the DOSBB Podcast is underway! This week, B.B. had the honor of sitting down with author and entrepreneur Shontae Smith in a discussion about recognizing we are enough. Tune in and embrace your “enoughness” by declaring you are fearfully and wonderfully made! Be sure to order Prophetess Smith’s books: This Little Black… Read More DOSBB Podcast: “Embracing ‘Enoughness’ with Shontae Smith”

Liberty & the Pursuit of Happiness

Everybody Has an Opinion; but, Whose Report are You Going to Believe?

It is no secret that we all have an opinion on just about everything that transpires in life. Be it as impacting as who should be the president of the United States of America or whether or not Jada and August’s “entanglement” is newsworthy. I’m not interested in swaying your stand on the two subjects… Read More Everybody Has an Opinion; but, Whose Report are You Going to Believe?

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I Am Beautiful

During a recent scroll through Instagram, I saw a post that read, “I can’t believe I let people convince me my skin isn’t beautiful.” I can relate. One of my high school classmates routinely made negative comments about my skin tone and overall appearance. Did she taunt me with my visible insecurities? Or did she… Read More I Am Beautiful

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I Am a Masterpiece: Why I Choose Self-Acceptance Over Social Acceptance

When I was younger, I didn’t see myself as beautiful—or even attractive. I’ve shared how awkward and unattractive I felt when I was in middle school and high school but despite how I felt, there were a few guys who were attracted to me. There were two interactions that I recall from my freshman year… Read More I Am a Masterpiece: Why I Choose Self-Acceptance Over Social Acceptance