Pop the Cork, the Diary of a Stylish Buxom Beauty is 3 Years Old

They say time flies when you’re having fun – I do think three years have flown by, however I can’t say it has been totally fun. There have been days when I struggled to determine a topic, searched desperately for inspiration, and fought through feelings of despair and disappointment. Be that as it may, I also have recollections of being excited about the words I wrote, and impatiently waited for someone to read them.

Additionally, I’ve felt “meh” toward some of the pieces I produced, and I’ve often wondered if my words were received or even read at all. Admittedly, there have been days that I asked myself, “Does anyone really care?” But, I have always seemed to find some level of hope that there was at least one person who was encouraged by my efforts, and I believe I know why.

Last week I was asked to review a bulletin message for work, which is a part of my duties. I made edits to make the message more succinct, and after I sent the updated document to my colleague, he responded by saying, “You have a gift.” Initially, I lightly dismissed his comment by acknowledging how long I’ve been creating and editing communications for work, but then I realized – my colleague is right.

When I created this blog in April 2015 I wasn’t focused on the writing aspect of it. I was actually inspired to create the Diary of a Stylish Buxom Beauty due to the suggestion of an acquaintance. Not because she was impressed by my writing, but she thought I should share my fashion style with the “world.” Although I enjoy shopping and I take pride in creating outfits that highlight my personality and figure, I believe my purpose has another layer.

Photo credit: Ryan “Rock” Mitchell, Makeup: @shachicmua

Please don’t misunderstand me, I hope people are inspired by the pictures I post in conjunction with the words I write to love themselves as they are. I am not stingy about sharing where I found a pair of fabulous shoes or some well-fitted jeans. But more importantly, I know how it feels to be unhappy with self because of negative outside influences. I want to be a source of encouragement, for anyone who allows it, to overcome and silence the naysayers – even the one in your head. I believe in displaying the confidence that has been birthed in me to let someone who is lacking know it can come forth in them too.

As I reflect on the past three years, I am happy to say I have learned and shared more about me. Each day teaches me to be true to myself regardless of who accepts or rejects me. I am striving to live without regrets and thoughts of “what if.”

I am truly grateful for every individual who read, shared, and commented on something I wrote, and for the people who encouraged me to keep going.

I am walking into year four with the acknowledgement of my God-given gift to inspire and encourage through the words I write. I am also equipped with the fact that my gift will make room for me. I am looking forward to more experiences, collaborations, and victories that are a part of my journey. So once again, I invite you into the mind of this Buxom Beauty.