sexy – sexually attractive or exciting.

synonyms: sexually attractive, seductive, desirable, alluring, toothsome, sensual, sultry, slinky, provocative, tempting, tantalizing; nubile, voluptuous, luscious, lush, […]

“…the right clothes, the right shoes, the right make-up – it hides the flaws we think we have, they make us beautiful to ourselves…that’s what makes us beautiful to others” – Martha Rodgers, Castle
Having […]

A few years ago I attended a training course that discussed animals that matched leadership styles – I learned that I am a peacock. This was not surprising to me at all – considering peacocks are identified as s […]

Several months ago I posted my thoughts concerning the importance of taking pride in our appearance, and I feel the need to revisit it. I recognize there are some people who think clothing and one’s appearance i […]

Several years ago, someone said I looked like Esther Rolle. At the time the statement was made, I took offense to it. I was offended because back then, I didn’t consider her to be an attractive woman. During my e […]

A paradox is a statement or proposition that, despite sound (or apparently sound) reasoning from acceptable premises, leads to a conclusion that seems senseless, logically unacceptable, or […]

The verb champion means to fight or speak publicly in support of (a person, belief, cause, etc.).
I’ve often wondered why there is so much comparing and competing among women. What is the reason behind the “c […]

As I sit here – in my black Michael Kors jumpsuit, I am pondering over my previous remarks and views concerning plus-size fashion acceptance, and I wonder if my original perspective is flawed. Acceptance is the […]

When I am wearing my heels, I walk tall, and my confidence is more evident. There is something about a high heel shoe I find sexy and alluring, and I believe I project those characteristics when I am wearing […]

“A role model is defined as a person whose behavior, example, or success is or can be emulated by others, especially younger people.”

While I waited for my oil change, I noticed the September 2015 edition of […]

It amazes me that I have had haters since I was the ripe age of nine. I can recall being told I was not liked because I was stuck up and thought I was cute. It amuses me now, but at the age of nine it hurt. […]

As a young adult, shopping was my therapist- I thought I had unsurmountable problems back then if I only knew what was to come. There is something about a new dress, skirt or a pair of shoes that seem to lighten […]

Segregation is the action of setting someone or something apart from people or things or being set apart.
Fashion is a vehicle for self-expression. One’s personality and individual style can be visible through […]

Quite a few conversations transpired after publishing my post about foundation. Some people told me they learned a lot from what I shared, and they were interested in learning more. So, I decided it would be a […]

A few days ago I began to ponder over the context of the things I have written in regards to self-confidence and self-esteem. I began to question the process of moving from insecure to self-assured. How does […]

Our appearance makes a statement about us before we utter a single word. In most cases, as discriminatory as it may be, people typically form an opinion about us based on our appearance.

I don’t think a lot […]

Life is a precious gift that I have learned to appreciate more with each passing day. The things I used to take for granted now cause me to savor their existence. I have experienced quite a few things during […]