We live in an influential world. Generally speaking, what is considered “cool” and “acceptable” is defined by the masses. And in a lot of instances if someone is found outside of these parameters they are considered strange or unacceptable. Unfortunately, some of us fall victim to the desire for social acceptance. The collective we associate… Read More Plus-Size Women, Is the “Fit Guy” Our Superhero?
The first time I visited Etsy, I spotted quite a few items that I found to be fun and intriguing. I stumbled upon so many unique pieces, from leather earrings to bedazzled press on nails. But there was one find that stayed in the back of my mind for several months, and I finally purchased… Read More What Would B.B. Wear (WWBBW): My First Etsy Purchase
The above question entered my mind back in 2017 when I wrote a post for the Curvy Style blog. The aforementioned contribution was about my thoughts surrounding diversity in plus-size modeling. I challenged the push for diversity as a necessity and questioned if it is time to look within for acceptance. I was hesitant about… Read More Is There a Correlation Between Privilege and the Demand for Social-Acceptance in the Plus-Size Community?
Last month I invited you on a stroll down memory lane as I identified some of my favorite fashion picks from the past five years. As I looked through my photos, I realized I couldn’t cover them all in one post—so here is part two. This first look is a colorful, fit, and flare dress… Read More What Would B.B. Wear (WWBBW): A Look Back at B.B.’s Fashion Picks, Part Deux
When I was younger, I didn’t see myself as beautiful—or even attractive. I’ve shared how awkward and unattractive I felt when I was in middle school and high school but despite how I felt, there were a few guys who were attracted to me. There were two interactions that I recall from my freshman year… Read More I Am a Masterpiece: Why I Choose Self-Acceptance Over Social Acceptance
A few days ago I had a conversation with one of my friends about a social media post he shared with me. The post was in response to the “don’t rush” challenge that has been pretty popular on social media recently. This particular challenge has inspired various groups of people to make videos of themselves… Read More Where is the Line Between Personal Preference and Body Shaming?
Considering this Buxom Beauty wore leggings, a t-shirt, and a headwrap every day during the latest self-isolation time, it was a bit of a struggle to find a topic for this WWBBW post. I’m usually inspired by something I’ve worn or something I’d like to add to my wardrobe. In addition to not being in… Read More What Would B.B. Wear (WWBBW): The Buxom Beauty’s Style
Almost five years ago I started a quest to promote and instill self-love and acceptance through the words that I write. I also decided to follow a suggestion to share my fashion choices as a part of this pursuit. When I settled down to write this week’s WWBBW post I pondered over what to share.… Read More What Would B.B. Wear (WWBBW): A Look Back at B.B.’s Fashion Picks
Recently, I had a conversation about where I buy my clothes. This question pops up often while I’m at work. I’ve also been approached by complete strangers on the rare occasions I’m at the store or mall—and I’m not wearing leggings and my oversized wrap cardigan. However, that sweater generates a lot of compliments—but I… Read More What Would B.B. Wear (WWBBW): “Where Do You Buy Your Clothes?”
Over the years I’ve come to realize there are multiple aspects of self-confidence. The first layer—and most important one—comes from within and it is complemented by clothes and accessories. The attire I choose to wear is a reflection of my confidence as it relates to my appearance. And my level of confidence is apparent through… Read More What Would B.B. Wear (WWBBW): Underneath it All
